Hi there. I have been dating my boyfriend for about two months and I really think I have fallen for him. Things with him are just different than with anyone I have ever met and I knew the moment I met him that I wanted to learn from him. He told me he loved me about a month in, which was really fast I know. But tonight he said that we shouldn't say that anymore because we are 'just kids'. I'm really confused and kind of hurt as to why he would take it back. Please help
First off, I want to say how beautiful it is that you found a human connection like that. It’s so very rare, so do not neglect to be grateful for it :)
Of course I can’t tell you what he’s really thinking, because I’m not him. I can offer you my interpretation based on what you’ve told me, but don’t take it as fact.
You’ve said that things are progressing really fast with you two. Maybe that scares him. Perhaps he feels he is not ready for something so intense, which appears likely regarding his statement that you two are “just kids.” Seems he is trying to make things more casual. That doesn’t have to mean his feelings for you have declined; it may actually mean he has realized that he could lose you at any given time, and the more important you become to him, the more it would hurt him to lose you. He’s trying to protect himself.
I don’t think he takes it back. He loves you. But he doesn’t want to say it all the time because that would emphasize your importance to one another. Do you know what I mean?